<?xml version="1.0" encoding="UTF-8"?><rss version="2.0" xmlns:content="http://purl.org/rss/1.0/modules/content/" xmlns:wfw="http://wellformedweb.org/CommentAPI/" xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/" xmlns:atom="http://www.w3.org/2005/Atom" xmlns:sy="http://purl.org/rss/1.0/modules/syndication/" xmlns:slash="http://purl.org/rss/1.0/modules/slash/" > <channel> <title>follow the crowd Archives - Diana Derringer</title> <atom:link href="https://dianaderringer.com/tag/follow-the-crowd/feed/" rel="self" type="application/rss+xml" /> <link>https://dianaderringer.com/tag/follow-the-crowd/</link> <description></description> <lastBuildDate>Fri, 08 Jan 2021 16:41:50 +0000</lastBuildDate> <language>en-US</language> <sy:updatePeriod> hourly </sy:updatePeriod> <sy:updateFrequency> 1 </sy:updateFrequency> <generator>https://wordpress.org/?v=6.7.2</generator> <image> <url>https://dianaderringer.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/04/cropped-derringer_headshotsm-32x32.png</url> <title>follow the crowd Archives - Diana Derringer</title> <link>https://dianaderringer.com/tag/follow-the-crowd/</link> <width>32</width> <height>32</height> </image> <item> <title>Go Against the Grain</title> <link>https://dianaderringer.com/go-against-the-grain/</link> <comments>https://dianaderringer.com/go-against-the-grain/#comments</comments> <dc:creator><![CDATA[Diana Derringer]]></dc:creator> <pubDate>Tue, 12 Jan 2016 00:00:20 +0000</pubDate> <category><![CDATA[Peace]]></category> <category><![CDATA[Problems]]></category> <category><![CDATA[Relationships]]></category> <category><![CDATA[Self-Improvement]]></category> <category><![CDATA[Wisdom]]></category> <category><![CDATA[decisions]]></category> <category><![CDATA[devotion]]></category> <category><![CDATA[Diana Derringer]]></category> <category><![CDATA[follow the crowd]]></category> <category><![CDATA[go against the grain]]></category> <category><![CDATA[grain]]></category> <category><![CDATA[idioms]]></category> <category><![CDATA[Life Lessons from English Expressions]]></category> <category><![CDATA[popular opinion]]></category> <category><![CDATA[stand up for what's right]]></category> <category><![CDATA[wood]]></category> <category><![CDATA[Words Wit and Wisdom]]></category> <guid isPermaLink="false">https://temp.dianaderringer.com/?p=2230</guid> <description><![CDATA[<p>If we work with wood, we don’t usually go against the grain. We work in the natural direction of the wood’s fibers. That is true whether we work with new wood or old. It is also true whether we: Sand the wood to make it smooth Paint or stain it Clean or polish it Years ago, I put new stain on a beautiful piece of furniture. In one spot, I brushed against the grain. That one mistake stood out from...</p> <p class="read-more"><a class="btn btn-default" href="https://dianaderringer.com/go-against-the-grain/"> Read More<span class="screen-reader-text"> Read More</span></a></p> <p>The post <a href="https://dianaderringer.com/go-against-the-grain/">Go Against the Grain</a> appeared first on <a href="https://dianaderringer.com">Diana Derringer</a>.</p> ]]></description> <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p style="text-align: left;"><a href="https://temp.dianaderringer.com/wp-content/uploads/2016/01/Go-Against-the-Grain-2-morguefile6631240571960.jpg"><img fetchpriority="high" decoding="async" class="alignright size-full wp-image-2233" src="https://temp.dianaderringer.com/wp-content/uploads/2016/01/Go-Against-the-Grain-2-morguefile6631240571960.jpg" alt="Go Against the Grain 2 morguefile6631240571960" width="334" height="440" srcset="https://dianaderringer.com/wp-content/uploads/2016/01/Go-Against-the-Grain-2-morguefile6631240571960.jpg 334w, https://dianaderringer.com/wp-content/uploads/2016/01/Go-Against-the-Grain-2-morguefile6631240571960-228x300.jpg 228w" sizes="(max-width: 334px) 100vw, 334px" /></a>If we work with wood, we don’t usually go against the grain. We work in the natural direction of the wood’s fibers. That is true whether we work with new wood or old. It is also true whether we:</p> <ul style="text-align: left;"> <li>Sand the wood to make it smooth</li> <li>Paint or stain it</li> <li>Clean or polish it</li> </ul> <p style="text-align: left;">Years ago, I put new stain on a beautiful piece of furniture. In one spot, I brushed against the grain. That one mistake <a href="https://dianaderringer.com/stand-out/">stood out </a>from all the rest.</p> <p style="text-align: left;">In life, if we go against the grain, we go against what we want to do. That often means <a href="https://dianaderringer.com/stand-firm/">standing firm </a> against popular opinion.</p> <p style="text-align: left;">Our natural desire leads us to follow the crowd. Standing firm for what we believe can be difficult when few people stand with us. Yet, the crowd is not always right.</p> <p style="text-align: left;">So how do we decide the direction to go?</p> <h3 style="text-align: left;">Avoid</h3> <ul style="text-align: left;"> <li>Going along with everyone else just because it is easy</li> <li>Going against the grain simply for attention</li> </ul> <h3 style="text-align: left;">Do</h3> <ul style="text-align: left;"> <li>Educate ourselves</li> <li>Choose what is right, whether it goes against the grain or not.</li> </ul> <p style="text-align: left;">“Hold on to what is good, reject every kind of evil” (1 Thessalonians 5:21-22 NIV).</p> <p style="text-align: left;">Thanks to Suellen Shaw for the idea.</p> <p style="text-align: left;">Do you have an expression you want explained? 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