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Puppy Love

February 10, 2015 Diana Derringer Comments 4 comments

Puppy Love 1 Puppies are cute, sweet, and make us smile. The same is true for puppy love — children or young people falling in love. We smile at puppy love, but we know it seldom lasts.

The problem: Puppy love depends on emotions alone — how do I feel?

If you make me feel good, I love you.
If you make me feel bad, I don’t love you.
If we have fun, I love you.
If we don’t have fun, I don’t love you.

As a result, young people may fall in and out of love several times.

Sadly many adults define love the same way.

The trouble with that thinking:

Good feelings come and go.
Life is not always fun.

True love – lasting love – means much more.

I choose to love you.
I commit my life to you.
I will do what is best for you.

That does not mean love is blind. It does mean:

I accept that no one is perfect.
I will work with you on our disagreements.
I love you, even when I don’t like you or your actions.

In any relationship we sometimes feel on top of the world. Other times we feel like we are in a valley. True love says, “I will walk with you wherever the journey takes us.”

Love is a choice. Love is a verb.

Note: If abuse occurs in a relationship, seek help and protection immediately.

“Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud.It does not dishonor others, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs” (1 Corinthians 13:4-5).

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Merry Christmas

December 23, 2014 Diana Derringer Comments 3 comments

Merry Christmas!

We often hear this greeting during the month of December. But what does it really mean?

Happy holiday?
Enjoy a good December?
Have fun?

We often mean all the above. However, for those who believe in Jesus, the Christ of Christmas, it means so much more.

The word Christmas comes from the Old English “Mass of Christ.”

Christmas celebrates the birth of Jesus, the Christ.

Many people celebrate Christmas without knowing the Christmas story. They focus on decorated trees, Santa Claus, parties, and presents. They have no idea Jesus is the greatest gift.

Jesus came to give eternal life and a home in heaven.

He offers His presence and a life filled with:

Hope
Peace
Joy
Love

As with any gift, we can accept Jesus’ gift or reject it.

I pray that you accept Jesus’ life-changing gift this Christmas and share it with everyone you meet.

Merry Christmas! Joy to the world! The Lord has come.

“The virgin will conceive and give birth to a son, and they will call him Immanuel” (which means “God with us”) (Matthew 1:23 NIV).

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Graveyard Dead

April 22, 2014 Diana Derringer Comments 3 comments

Dead is dead.

Graveyard dead emphasizes that fact. Someone or something died with no hope of revival and must be buried. The phrase can be used for the death of:

An idea
A business proposal
Animals
People

The redundant description clearly means:

No effort will help.
No hope exists.
We must say good-bye.

But is that all?

If we have no hope, why have the word?

One idea or proposal may not work, but we can always try another.
The loss of an animal doesn’t remove the good it gave.
Jesus promised this short life is not the end.

Claim the message of Easter. Live it every day. Hope endures!

“If the Spirit of him who raised Jesus from the dead is living in you, he who raised Christ from the dead will also give life to your mortal bodies because of his Spirit who lives in you” (Romans 8:11 NIV).

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Don’t Put All Your Eggs in One Basket

April 15, 2014 Diana Derringer Comments 0 Comment

Although not found in the Bible, egg hunts have become a common Easter tradition. Close to Easter seems a good time to remember we don’t put all our eggs in one basket.

As children find Easter eggs, they usually place them in brightly-colored baskets. Too many eggs make a basket overflow. Extra weight from the eggs can make a fragile basket break.

Using more than one basket, if needed, reduces the risk of losing or breaking their eggs.

Neither should we put all our eggs in one basket.

We don’t want to limit our resources to one possibility.

For a greater chance of success, we must diversify.

Invest money in more than one company.
Study more than one subject.
Learn more than one skill.
Apply to more than one school.
Develop more than one hobby.
Plan more than one vacation route.

We want to keep our options open.

If one goal fails, we have an alternative.

If our dream becomes a nightmare, we can follow a different dream.

“But the plans of the LORD stand firm forever, the purposes of his heart through all generations” (Psalm 33:11 NIV).

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Love is Blind

February 11, 2014 Diana Derringer Comments 5 comments

On Valentine’s Day we give flowers, candy, stuffed animals, and other gifts to those we love. This special day also reminds us that love is blind.

We see people differently when we look through eyes of love.

We focus on their good traits and overlook the bad. This happens with boyfriends, girlfriends, spouses, and children. Because love is blind, we think our loved one is the smartest, cutest, sweetest person on earth.

That doesn’t mean we never see a person’s faults.

Yet, because we love them, we look for the best in them. We see what we want to see.

A 2004 scientific study verified that love is blind. The University College London found that love suppresses the part of our brain that controls critical thought.

We probably need some degree of blindness to keep loving feelings strong. At the same time, we need to take our blinders off when those faults become harmful. Then, we must clearly see what needs to change and take the steps to change it.

Teaching a child right from wrong requires a strong will. So does voicing concerns to a spouse.

True love is an act of the will, not emotion.

By working through difficult times, relationships grow.

True love says:

I will do what’s best for you, whether I feel like it or not.
I will do what’s best for you whether you deserve it or not.
I will do what’s best for you, because that’s how true love works.

Let’s be thankful love is blind to the little faults in one another. Let’s act with eyes wide open when true love requires it.

“For the LORD disciplines those he loves, just as a father disciplines the son in whom he delights (Proverbs 3:12 NET)

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Back to the Drawing Board

December 31, 2013 Diana Derringer Comments 8 comments

When we make a mistake, we need to go back to the drawing board.

A drawing board is an architect’s table. If a design fails or doesn’t work as desired, the architect starts all over. He goes back to the drawing board to plan again.

No one enjoys having to redo work.

At the same time, don’t you find it encouraging that we can:

Correct mistakes?
Start over?
Improve projects that fail to work the first time?

That’s why we have erasers on pencils, and delete and undo buttons on computers.

We all make mistakes, so no one has the right to feel superior. Rather, by working together and sharing knowledge gained from successes and errors, everyone benefits.

How wonderful that God provides second chances.

When we make a total mess of our lives, we can go back to life’s drawing board.
When we see no hope for the future, God shows us a better way.
If we turn to God, He reveals His perfect design for our lives.

I can think of no greater way to begin a new year.

“Just as Christ was raised from the dead through the glory of the Father, we too may live a new life” (Romans 6:4 NIV).

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Santa Claus

December 24, 2013 Diana Derringer Comments 2 comments

What comes to mind when you hear the name Santa Claus? Most people picture a jolly man with a white beard. He wears a red suit and black boots and says “Ho! Ho! Ho! Merry Christmas!” a lot. Santa Bob, pictured here, is a perfect example.

I wonder, however, how many people know about Saint Nicholas, the man who inspired our modern-day Santa Claus. According to history and legend, Saint Nicholas lived a far different life.

Saint Nicholas was born around AD 260-280 in modern day Turkey. His parents died when he was young but left him enough money to live well. He gave much of his money to help people in need, especially children.

Saint Nicholas performed many of his good deeds at night when no one could see him. One story tells of a poor man with three daughters. With no money, the girls had little hope of marriage. As a result, the father feared he would have to sell his daughters into slavery.

When Saint Nicholas heard about this family, he tossed bags of gold through an open window of their house. The coins landed either in the stockings or shoes of the girls. Some say he tossed the gold down the chimney.

Yet Saint Nicholas’ government did not praise this generous man. Because he refused to give up his beliefs in Jesus, he was sent to prison and tortured.

When you see people in Santa Claus costumes this Christmas, remember Saint Nicholas. Remember the man who helped others and suffered for following Jesus. Remember that Christmas celebrates the birth of the Savior Saint Nicholas served.

Thanks to Santa Bob for sharing his photo and for living the true meaning of Christmas.

“For to us a child is born, to us a son is given, and the government will be on his shoulders. And he will be called Wonderful Counselor, Mighty God, Everlasting Father, Prince of Peace” (Isaiah 9:6 NIV).

Attitude of Gratitude

November 26, 2013 Diana Derringer Comments 4 comments

The Thanksgiving holiday reminds us to express an attitude of gratitude.

During this special time, we take notice of and give thanks for our many blessings.

All too often, however, that attitude changes as easily as the seasons. Once Thanksgiving passes, so does our time of giving thanks.

Why not keep a thankful heart all year?

Why not focus on what we have rather than what we want? Why not view our glass as half-full rather than half-empty? Why be grumpy when we can be grateful? Why envy others who have more “stuff.” Why not be grateful we can share our “stuff” and then give some of it to someone who needs it?

Instead of building a bigger house, why not give thanks for a safe place to live.
Instead of buying a fancier car, why not be grateful for two good legs?
Instead of buying the latest tech toy, why not spend time talking to someone face to face?
Instead of eating too much, why not donate to the local food pantry. (See photo above.)
Instead of buying new clothes, why not recycle old ones? (Vintage is always in style.)

With all the money we save, think how much good we can do for others. As one song says, “Give it away.” Now that’s an attitude of gratitude and a great way to give thanks.

Will we allow thanksgiving to remain a one-day holiday or make it a lifestyle?

“Oh, give thanks to the God of heaven, for his loving-kindness continues forever” (Psalm 136:26 TLB).

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