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Half-baked

June 16, 2025 Diana Derringer Comments 4 comments

I don’t like half-baked food, do you? Instead, like these beautiful cupcakes, bake everything until fully done. Yum!

Half-baked means partly baked.

Half-done food:

Rarely tastes good
May not be safe

Anything half-baked, food or nonfood, is incomplete.

Poor planning and practice doom our projects. Success requires good judgement in preparation and procedure.

Half-baked also means foolish.

Ideas are:

Impractical
Uninformed
Unrealistic

Impolite descriptions include:

Stupid
Crazy
Brainless

Such ideas often result from a lack of maturity or experience.

However, age and ability don’t guarantee wise judgement. Neither do youth and a lack of experience mean certain failure.

At any age or skill level, we gain when we:

Take our time.
Plan well.
Work hard.

If we want to take the cake, we can’t use half-baked ideas.

God never offers partial plans.

In a recent sermon, our pastor described a half-baked or half-done scheme. Because of poor planning and performance, it failed.

However, God never does anything halfway. We find the ultimate example of God’s complete work in Jesus. Sent to earth as the perfect sacrifice for our sins, Jesus saves us entirely and eternally.

God gives the best. Never settle for less.

“My people mingle with the heathen, picking up their evil ways; thus they become as good-for-nothing as a half-baked cake!” (Hosea 7:8 TLB).

Thanks to Pastor Dwayne Norman for the idea and to Carol Sullivan for the photo.

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Chopped Liver

June 2, 2025 Diana Derringer Comments 11 comments

Does anyone out there like chopped liver? I tried to eat it by:

Hiding it in mashed potatoes
Holding my nose
Breading it and adding spices

Nothing worked. It still tasted like liver. I know liver is good for me, but I don’t like it. I consider it a dish for the birds.

Whether we eat it or not, we sometimes feel like chopped liver.

No matter how hard we try:

Not everyone likes us.
Many overlook us.
Few appreciate our potential.

Chopped liver means worthless.

We judge a person or thing as:

Unpleasant
Unimportant
Undesirable

Emotional responses to such treatment include:

Sadness
Anger
Disappointment
Defeat
Frustration

A common verbal response is, “So what am I? Chopped liver?”

We may say this when:

We fail to get a job.
Friends reject us.
People make fun of us.

According to The Free Dictionary, this expression “likely originated as a part of Jewish humor.”

It probably refers to “chopped liver as a common side dish.” It was “overlooked in favor of the main course.” Many people dislike its taste.

We may consider chopped liver as good only for garbage. Yet, we never want to treat one another that way.

“To love [God] with all your heart, with all your understanding and with all your strength, and to love your neighbor as yourself is more important than all burnt offerings and sacrifices” (Mark 12:33 NIV).

Thanks to Joan Borton for the suggestion. Photo courtesy of Pixabay.

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Something Is Afoot

May 26, 2025 Diana Derringer Comments 6 comments

My husband and I loved walks in national, state, and local parks for years. My sister and her husband also enjoyed this area in the Big Horn Mountains. Something is afoot may simply mean someone or something is walking. We travel on foot. However, the expression usually means more.

According to Merriam-Webster dictionary, afoot also means “in the process of development.”

It is underway but not complete. Sometimes we know the plans but not always. Occasionally, it means people have something up their sleeve, a secret plan.

Unknown activity makes us curious.

We try to figure out what is happening. When no one knows, we guess. Anticipation grows.

Parents give hints but no details of a planned vacation.
Teachers promise a fun activity but leave students in the dark until it begins.
Friends take friends on a wild goose chase before a special celebration.

Much is afoot in our world today.

Plans have been made.
Work is in progress.
People look forward to or dread the future.

However, all that can change in an instant.

Unexpected events turn the tables.

Storms
Wars
Illness
Death

We want to prepare ourselves for whatever the future holds.

Our lives and our world frequently change. God remains the same.

When we give our lives to God, everything else eventually works out regardless of what is afoot.

“Many are the plans in the mind of a man, but it is the purpose of the Lord that will stand” (Proverbs 19:31 ESV).

Thanks to Cathy Chinn for the suggestion.

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Where Bees Are, There Is Honey

May 19, 2025 Diana Derringer Comments 10 comments

My dad loved taking care of bee hives. A cousin continues Dad’s tradition. He knows that where bees are, there is honey.

Where bees are, there is honey has a clear literal meaning.

Honeybees produce honey.

We sometimes hear a less grammatically correct version of this expression: Where there’s bees, there’s honey.

Bees work hard, and their hard work pays off.

In addition to providing a natural sweetener, they pollinate plants.

Flowers
Vegetables
Fruits

Without bees, we suffer.

Where bees are, there is honey also applies to people.

Where we find people busy as a bee, we find results.

Success and better pay usually follow hard work. Hard work also makes our world a better place.

Bees teach us to work together.

Large numbers in bee swarms make their efforts faster and more effective. Likewise for people, many hands make light work.

May we learn from bees and from all God’s creation.

“The fear of the Lord is pure, enduring forever. The decrees of the Lord are firm, and all of them are righteous. They are more precious than gold, than much pure gold; they are sweeter than honey, than honey from the honeycomb” (Psalm 19:9-10 NIV).

Thanks to Kristy Horine for the suggestion and to Jewell Withers Wade for the photo.

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Green as a Gourd

May 12, 2025 Diana Derringer Comments 6 comments

My grandmother grew gourds. I did not understand why. What good were they? I thought they tasted awful. Plus, my grandmother often referred to people as green as a gourd. That expression was not a compliment.

As green as a gourd means not ripe.

Gourds need time to ripen before they become useful. People also need time to mature before we tackle certain tasks. Youth has its advantages, but so does maturity with its time and experience.

Similar expressions include:

Green behind the ears
Greenhorn

As green as a gourd also refers to the gourd’s color.

When we have stomach trouble, we turn green as a gourd from nausea. We feel and look horrible. Not a condition we desire.

Dried or cured gourds once served a variety of roles.

After time to mature, they became:

Dippers
Containers
Birdhouses
Musical instruments
Arts and crafts

They continue to serve some of those purposes.

The gourd in this picture belonged to my great-great-grandmother. She used it as a salt container. It has served and lasted well. May we also be worth our salt, serving long and well.

“Then we will no longer be infants, tossed back and forth by the waves, and blown here and there by every wind of teaching and by the cunning and craftiness of people in their deceitful scheming” (Ephesians 4:14 NIV).

Thanks to Darrin Jenkins for the suggestion.

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The Hand That Rocks the Cradle

May 5, 2025 Diana Derringer Comments 6 comments

In 1865, William Ross Wallace wrote a poem, “What Rules the World.” According to The Free Dictionary, it later became known as “The Hand that Rules the World.” The poem’s refrain, “The hand that rocks the cradle is the hand that rules the world” has become an often-repeated proverb.

The hand that rocks the cradle refers to the influence mothers have on children.

Mothers guide their children’s overall growth.

Social
Emotional
Physical
Mental
Spiritual

Think about the power in that position.

The hand that rocks the cradle applies to more than biological mothers.

Some of the most influential include:

Foster mothers
Adoptive mothers
Mothers-in-law
Stepmothers
Grandmothers
Other relatives
Friends
Neighbors
Teachers
Anyone who assumes a mother’s role, formal or informal

This Mother’s Day, thank the mothers in your life.

I am so grateful for the positive influence of my mother plus several others in informal mother roles. Many now live in heaven, but their impact remains.

“Her children arise and call her blessed” (Proverbs 31:28 NIV).

What mothers would you add to the list I made. Please comment.

Thanks to Debbie Tapscott for the suggestion and to Virginia Graves for the photo taken at Taylor County Museum – The Heistand House in Campbellsville, KY.

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Written in Stone

April 28, 2025 Diana Derringer Comments 6 comments

When we receive instructions, we may wonder if they will change or if they are written in stone. That is true for orders from:

Parents to children
Employers to workers
Governments to citizens

Anything written in stone (or set in stone) cannot be changed.

It is:

Permanent
In final form

Similar expressions include cast in stone or etched in stone.

Written in stone probably originated with the Ten Commandments in the Bible.

Those rules, given by God to Moses, were engraved on stone. They provide direction for every part of our lives.

The first four commandments address our relationship with God.

They tell us to:

Have no other gods before God.
Make no idols.
Never take God’s name in vain.
Remember and keep the Sabbath day holy.

The last six commandments address our relationships with other people.

They tell us to:

Honor our fathers and mothers.

And not to:

Murder
Commit adultery
Steal
Bear false witness
Covet

Years later, a law expert asked Jesus which commandment is greatest.

Jesus replied, “‘Love the Lord your God with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your mind.’ This is the first and greatest commandment. And the second is like it: ‘Love your neighbor as yourself.’ All the Law and the Prophets hang on these two commandments” (Matthew 22:37-40).

Love God. Love others. That covers all the commandments in a nutshell.

Thanks to Tracy Crump for the suggestion. Image by Enlightening Images from Pixabay.

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Spin a Yarn

April 21, 2025 Diana Derringer Comments 6 comments

When our extended family gets together, a few relatives always spin a yarn. They keep us entertained with their tall tales. Some stories are true or based on truth. Others stretch beyond belief. Most are a hoot.

To spin a yarn means to tell a story.

Often that story is:

Long
Made-up
Full of twists and turns

Sometimes we spin a yarn to stay out of trouble.

We know we did something wrong. To avoid the consequences, we lie or tell a partial truth. However, two wrongs don’t make a right. Not when other people hurt us. Not when we mess up.

This idiom originated with ropes made of long fibers called yarns.

According to The Free Dictionary, “Sailors used to spin yarns … to make ropes. They were also famous for telling unlikely stories of their adventures.” The nautical term dates from around 1800. We now enjoy the double meaning of “spun fiber” and “a tale.”

Everyone has a story.

From our experiences, we can share lessons of:

Hope
Joy
Peace
Love

The Bible holds the greatest story ever told.

Life changing
All truth
Available to everyone

“Give thanks to the Lord, for he is good; his love endures forever. Let the redeemed of the Lord tell their story.” (Psalm 107:1-2 NIV).

Thanks to Beckham Wilson for the suggestion. Image courtesy of Pixabay.

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Red Tape

April 14, 2025 Diana Derringer Comments 9 comments

I was a social worker for almost thirty years. The work was stressful and the hours horrible. I was on-call twenty-four hours a day seven days a week. Yet I loved it.

I did not love the red tape. We had to jump through hoops of:

Endless paperwork
Frequent bureaucratic changes
Fluctuating budgets that reversed progress

Red tape refers to complicated, time-wasting official procedures.

Such requirements are:

Strict
Difficult
Tiresome

They focus on details and rules rather than efficiency and outcomes. Correct forms overrule positive results.

Red tape results in service delays.

Forms and rules should lead to speedier outcomes rather than needless obstacles. Likewise, successful procedures should remain regardless of leadership changes.

According to The Free Dictionary, this expression refers to “the former British custom of tying up official documents with red ribbon.”

Red ribbons make a document look good. However, appearance matters little. Contents determine the difference, good or bad.

A certain amount of red tape must remain.

Rules offer guidelines.
Paperwork gathers needed information.

Yet, a fine line exists between:

Efficient or ineffective
Helpful or hurtful

“Every official is under orders from higher up, and the higher officials look up to their superiors. And so the matter is lost in red tape and bureaucracy” (Ecclesiastes 5:8 TLB).

Thanks to Regina Graham for the suggestion and to Karen Atwood for the photo.

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Kick the Tires

April 7, 2025 Diana Derringer Comments 6 comments

Before we buy a car, we want to kick the tires. We check the car inside and out from one end to the other. We drive it and try all its gadgets to be sure they work.

To kick the tires means to test the quality of something.

With any purchase, that includes time to:

Inspect
Research
Analyze

We desire the best product for our money.

We also kick the tires to see if a product meets our personal needs.

What works for one person may not work for another. I prefer small cars close to the ground. A tall person usually searches for a large vehicle with more leg room.

Kicking the tires pertains to more than purchases.

Employers desire dependable employees.
Employees seek the best bosses.
Individuals search for lasting relationships.

We want the people in our lives to meet our standards.

If we fail to kick the tires, we may end up kicking ourselves.

A word to the wise: Let’s test before we commit.

Above all else, test for truth.

In every decision, large or small, seek God’s guidance. Especially for spiritual matters:

Study the Bible.
Pray.
Discuss with trustworthy friends.

“Dear friends, do not believe every spirit, but test the spirits to see whether they are from God, because many false prophets have gone out into the world” (1 John 4:1 NIV).

Thanks to Jennifer Annette Graham for the suggestion and to Stan Curry with AutoSmart of Campbellsville for the photo.

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