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Heart of Gold

February 13, 2017 Diana Derringer Comments 1 comment

Heart of Gold--a gold heart Do you know people who have a heart of gold? Why not honor them this Valentine’s Day?

I know most people think of romantic love on Valentine’s Day. So do I. Yet, why not show other kinds of love as well? I don’t know of any rule against that.

People with a heart of gold give often.

They also give much. They are:

Kind
Friendly
Honest
Good natured

They give of themselves.

People with a heart of gold think of others before themselves.

They sometimes give away what they need, no strings attached. They love other people that much. Plus, they care for strangers as well as friends and family.

People with a heart of gold make good role models.

Think how wonderful the world would be if everyone showed that kind of love.

People value gold for its goodness.

Why not show caring people they are valued for their goodness too?

Thank them for their loving hearts.
Give them something they need or want
Give a gift to charity in their honor.
Hug them.
Take them to dinner.

“Create in me a pure heart, O God, and renew a steadfast spirit within me” (Psalm 51:10 NIV).

Who do you know with a heart of gold?

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Little Pitchers Have Big Ears--a small pitcher The curved handle on some pitchers looks like a person’s ear. When we say little pitchers have big ears, we warn adults to be careful what they say. Children don’t need to hear it.

We may also protect children by:

Spelling words we don’t want them to hear (This works until they can spell.)
Moving where they cannot hear us

Children like to listen to adults.

When adults speak, children often become all ears. Yet, they should not hear:

Information they are too young to understand
Talk that might upset or confuse them
Words no one should ever say
Gossip

Many times children repeat what they hear.

We always want to protect children.
We don’t always want them repeating what we say.

If we choose our words wisely, we don’t have to worry who hears them.

Helpful guidelines include:

Think before we speak.
Say nothing unkind or untrue.
Don’t say it if we don’t want it repeated.

As adults, we need to remember little pitchers have big ears. Like children, we also need to mind our Ps and Qs.

“Jesus called the crowd to him and said, ‘Listen and understand. What goes into someone’s mouth does not defile them, but what comes out of their mouth, that is what defiles them’” (Matthew 15:10-11 NIV).

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Out of the Mouth of Babes

January 23, 2017 Diana Derringer Comments 4 comments

Please welcome my friend Tracy Crump as today’s guest writer. Tracy and I met at Kentucky Christian Writers Conference, where she frequently serves on staff. Tracy dispenses hope in her book, Health, Healing, and Wholeness: Devotions of Hope in the Midst of Illness. She has published 22 stories in Chicken Soup for the Soul books and includes tips on writing for the series in her free e-newsletter, The Write Life. I highly recommend both the newsletter and book.

We can find wisdom in surprising places.

Even young children may teach us things. They often:

See things we don’t.
Look at the world in a different way.
Are very honest (sometimes more than we would like!).

Children’s fresh ideas may be just what we need.

One evening, my son and five-year-old granddaughter, Nellie, walked out the door. They looked up and saw beautiful thin clouds, lit with pink and orange, sweeping across the sky.

“Those are the streams of heaven,” Nellie told her daddy.

She knew what we often forget, that we can see God’s presence in the simple things.

A sunset
The touch of a friend
A baby’s smile

We can learn something from everyone we meet.

Don’t forget to listen to the words out of the mouth of babes.

“And [they] said to Him, ‘Do You hear what these are saying?’ And Jesus said to them, ‘Yes. Have you never read, “Out of the mouth of babes and nursing infants You have perfected praise”?” (Matthew 21:16 NKJV)

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Cry Over Spilled Milk

January 16, 2017 Diana Derringer Comments 1 comment

Cry Over Spilled Milk--a glass of spilled milk “Dry your tears. There is no need to cry over spilled milk.”

As a child, I often heard those words. Sometimes I had spilled milk. Usually I was unhappy about something I could not change.

We cry over spilled milk when upset about what we cannot control. Often what upset us occurred in the past.

We cannot undo the past.

We cannot unspill milk. Neither can we undo anything that has already happened. The past is water under the bridge.

We can do something about the present and future.

If something bad happened in the past, we can learn from the experience.
If something good happened, we can remember and smile.
If we hurt someone, we can ask forgiveness.
If someone hurt us, we can forgive.

Instead of crying over spilled milk, we can let bygones be bygones. We can choose to grow from all that happens, good or bad.

“One thing I do: Forgetting what is behind and straining toward what is ahead” (Philippians 3:13 NIV).

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Eyes in the Back of Her Head

January 9, 2017 Diana Derringer Comments 3 comments

Does your mom have eyes in the back of her head?

Many children think so. Of course, moms don’t have eyes in the back of their heads. Yet, they seem to know when their children have done wrong.

Children’s behaviors usually show they have disobeyed. They may:

Avoid their parents
Fail to look them in the eye
Say “I didn’t do it,” before parents ask if they did anything

As adults, we share some of those same behaviors.

We usually act guilty if we are guilty.

Some people hide guilt better than others. Yet, when we try to hide our guilt, we make a bad situation worse. We may:

Fear contact with the person we wronged
Change our behavior when around that person
Lie and lose that person’s trust

Why not choose a better way?

Straighten up and fly right – do what we should
Ask forgiveness when we do wrong
Forgive others when they wrong us

Then we won’t have to worry if Mom, or anyone else, has eyes in the back of her head.

“Nothing in all creation is hidden from God’s sight. Everything is uncovered and laid bare before the eyes of him to whom we must give account” (Hebrews 4:13 NIV).

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Fall Flat

January 2, 2017 Diana Derringer Comments 2 comments

Fall Flat--Yellowstone waterfall Waterfalls in Yellowstone National Park may fall on flat land. Yet, they never fall flat. They never fail to amaze us.

When we fall flat, we fail.

We fail in a big way. Often, we say we fall flat on our face.

We all fail.

We may wish for a failure-free life, but that will never happen. Sometimes our failures are small. Other times we fail in a big way – we fall flat. We feel like we can’t win for losing.

Since we all fail, what will we do with those failures?

Will we stop trying?
Will we blame others?
Or will we learn from our mistakes?

Why not turn failures into opportunities?

Failures teach us what does not work. Each failure moves us one step closer to success. We may find that success when we:

Make small changes to what we did before
Take a short break to rest our brains and bodies
Ask other people to help us
Spend our time on something different

If we learn, we have not failed.

Therefore, when we fall flat, let’s get up and try again.

“You could fall flat on your face as easily as anyone else. Forget about self-confidence; it’s useless. Cultivate God-confidence” (1 Corinthians 10:12 MSG).

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In the Dark

December 26, 2016 Diana Derringer Comments 4 comments

I love the beauty of a night sky. I enjoy standing in the dark watching changes in the moon and stars.

Someday I hope to see the Northern Lights. Pictures of them give me itchy feet. I want to hit the trail and watch those amazing lights shine.

Yet, a dark night with no light can be scary.

We often live in the dark.

When we do something in secret, we say we do it in the dark.
In the dark also means we do not have the information we need.

We will look at the second meaning.

Sometimes we choose to keep people in the dark.

We fail to give them information we know.
Or, they choose not to give us information they know.

When we are in the dark, we need light. We need information to make good decisions. Life can be scary without that information.

We can light the way for one another.

We do that by sharing:

Information
Guidance
Concern

The smallest light shines brightly in the dark.

One candle can brighten a room.
One star can brighten the sky.
One person can brighten the world.

During Christmas, we sing of Jesus bringing light into our dark world. Let’s remember to celebrate and share Jesus, the light of the world, all year long.

“No one lights a lamp and puts it in a place where it will be hidden, or under a bowl. Instead they put it on its stand, so that those who come in may see the light” (Luke 11:33 NIV).

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Give of Ourselves

December 19, 2016 Diana Derringer Comments 7 comments

Often the greatest gift we can give is ourselves.

To give of ourselves, we:

Give time
Show concern
Help others

During Christmas, we wrap gifts with paper and bows.

We buy:

Toys and games
Clothing
Books
Gift cards
Tools
Jewelry
Household items

We think we must:

Bake and make crafts
Shop until we drop
Attend parties and special events.

Yet, too often, we forget what matters most.

We get so busy giving things, we forget to give of ourselves. We

Neglect family
Have no time for friends
Do less than our best at work

What happened?

Isn’t the gift of self what Christmas is all about?

Jesus came as a baby to give Himself to the world. He died on the cross for the sins of the world. He offers the gift of eternal life to everyone. However, each person must choose to accept this greatest gift.

“I pray that as you share your faith with others it will grip their lives too, as they see the wealth of good things in you that come from Christ Jesus” (Philemon 6 TLB).

What is the greatest gift you ever received? Please comment.

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Itchy Feet

December 12, 2016 Diana Derringer Comments 1 comment

Itchy feet--standing on a beach, looking into the distance Do you ever get itchy feet? I do. I want to

Go somewhere
See new sights
Travel the world

Itchy feet need to travel.

Ready to hit the trail, my feet want to go to:

A favorite place
Off the beaten path to explore the unknown
A well-known tourist attraction
The beach
A friend or relative’s home
The mountains
A peaceful place with few people
A special event with crowds of people
The desert
A country road in the middle of nowhere

I love to visit new states. I enjoy the culture of new countries. Occasionally I don’t care where I go. I just want to go.

What causes itchy feet?

Itchy feet have no one cause. Reasons may include:

Hearing about another person’s travel
Remembering a favorite place
Pictures of places never seen
Certain times of year

Yet, wherever I travel, I always want to return home.

A few days or weeks, and I get homesick. I miss my garden spot of the world with:

Family
Neighbors and friends
House
Church
Routine

Perhaps travel’s greatest benefit is learning how much I love home.

Whether home or away, I find life’s greatest joy by following God’s path.

“For the paths of the Lord are true and right.” (Hosea 14:9 TLB).

Where do your itchy feet want to go? Please comment. I may need to add your favorite spot to my bucket list.

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In a Nutshell

December 5, 2016 Diana Derringer Comments 1 comment

Not much fits in a nutshell.

Look at the size of pecans, peanuts, walnuts, almonds, or any other nut. Little fits in the shell other than a nut.

Few written words would fit in a nutshell. Therefore, when we ask for information in a nutshell, we want that information:

Short
Simple
Easy to understand

We find the most important part in a nutshell.

The shell is useful. Yet, most of us throw away an empty shell. We want the best – that little bit of nut inside.

The same is true for our words. Why use 50 words when we can say what matters most with five? We want the main point – the bottom line.

Too many words put us to sleep or make us tired. If we don’t need them, why use them?

Of course, we sometimes want more detail.

We read or talk for fun.
We need to learn all we can about a subject.
A small amount of information makes us desire more.

Jesus’ message to the world, in a nutshell, is:

Love God.
Love one another.

To learn more about that message, we read the Bible.

“‘Love the Lord your God with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your strength and with all your mind’; and, ‘Love your neighbor as yourself’” (Luke 10:27 NIV).

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