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Make Waves

Make Waves

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Make WavesPeople sometimes warn us not to make waves. Other times, we realize we must. When we choose to make waves, we:

  • Rock the boat
  • Upset someone or something
  • Shock or disturb
  • Risk being called a trouble maker

Two truths about making waves help us decide what to do.

Waves can do great good, by:

  • Continuing earth’s natural flow
  • Calming us
  • Providing beauty and pleasure

Waves can also do much harm, by causing:

  • Ship wrecks
  • Drowning
  • Destruction of houses or communities.

Likewise, we can do great good or much harm by:

  • Improving or damaging our world
  • Correcting or increasing mistakes

Before we make waves, let’s be certain our actions make a positive difference.

“If only you had paid attention to my commands, your peace would have been like a river, your well-being like the waves of the sea” (Isaiah 48:18 NIV).

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Sink or Swim

Sink or Swim

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Sink or Swim

Many of us have fallen into water while playing games. Others have had someone throw us into water. Either way, the question remains the same: Will we sink or swim?

Some of us learn to swim quickly from such an experience.

  • We have to work harder.
  • Our swimming may not look pretty.
  • Yet, we swim our way out of danger.

In rough water, the strongest swimmer struggles. A weak swimmer has a much harder time. When a strong swimmer helps a weak one, both grow stronger.

Life is like that. We meet challenges every day. Some we know how to solve with no problem. Others present difficulties we have never experienced.  Either way, we sink (fail) or swim (succeed).

A few challenges may be impossible to overcome. With most, we have a choice. Will we:

  • Give up or try harder?
  • Listen to negatives or positives?
  • Accept our limits or grow?
  • Ignore people weaker than us or help them grow?

“He replied, ‘You of little faith, why are you so afraid?’  Then he got up and rebuked the winds and the waves, and it was completely calm” (Matthew 8:26 NIV).

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Jack of All Trades

Jack of All Trades

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Jack of All TradesSometimes I would like to be a jack of all trades. I wish I could do lots of different jobs. Instead, I rely on others with all those skills.

I have a friend who can do almost anything. He is the best handyman I know. His skills include:

  • Plumbing
  • Electrical work
  • Yard work
  • Auto repair
  • Carpentry

You name it, he can do it. When our family has a problem, we contact him.

Calling someone a jack of all trades may be a compliment. However, calling the person a jack of all trades, master of none is definitely not a compliment. Then we’re saying the person tries to do many things but does nothing well.

However, we never know what we can do until we try.

As we try, we can evaluate our abilities. If we have certain skills, let’s do our best at them. If we lack talent in other areas, let someone else do those. If we work together and share our skills, everyone benefits.

“Whatever you do, work at it with all your heart, as working for the Lord, not for human masters” (Colossians 3:23 NIV).

Thanks to Rebecca Stafford for this suggestion.

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Like Water off a Duck’s Back

Like Water off a Duck’s Back

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Like Water Off a Duck's BackDo you need a solution for anger or frustration? Watch ducks. That’s right; watch ducks.

Ducks often dive under water for food. When they come up, the water glides over their backs and returns to the pond or lake. Occasionally they shake their feathers to get rid of any extra water.

Ducks show no need to:

  • Watch the water.
  • Quack at the water.
  • Fight the water.

They’re too busy swimming and diving for something to eat.

When life upsets us, let the problem go. Treat it like water off a duck’s back. We don’t have to:

  • Focus on what upsets us.
  • Yell at what upsets us.
  • Fight what upsets us.

Getting upset tires us, so in a duck-like manner:

  • Ignore hateful comments.
  • Overlook insults.
  • When we must respond, do so clearly but kindly.
  • Then shake off any remaining negative feelings.

In the process, we gain freedom — freedom from the control of others and freedom to become our best selves.

We can also pray that those who upset us learn to act like ducks.

“A fool is quick-tempered; a wise man stays cool when insulted” (Proverbs 12:16 TLB).

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Light at the End of the Tunnel

Light at the End of the Tunnel

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Light at the End of the Tunnel 2Tunnels may get us through mountains, but the journey can be dark and scary. If we focus on light at the end of the tunnel, we find hope. That light promises an end to our dark and scary time.

Some tunnels seem to go on forever. They amaze me. How can anyone dig a hole through the middle of a mountain without getting crushed?

Yet they can.

The engineer in charge designs a plan. That plan creates a tunnel that will protect both the construction workers and the travelers. However, the design works only if everyone carefully follows the plan.

Like a tunnel, life sometimes seems dark and scary. We feel like we’re digging through a mountain of difficulties. We wonder how we will make it through without getting crushed.

God, who created us, is:

  • Life’s engineer, who created a perfect plan
  • Our source of light, who promises an end to any dark and scary time
  • Our hope, peace, and guidance through every difficulty

The question for each of us: Will we follow?

“When Jesus spoke again to the people, he said, “I am the light of the world. Whoever follows me will never walk in darkness, but will have the light of life” (John 8:12).

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Put Your House in Order

Put Your House in Order

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Put Your House in OrderIt’s probably too late to put this old house in order. We see signs of decay all over it:

  • Weeds, trees, and vines growing near and on it
  • Cracks in the wood, windows, and door
  • Parts of it leaning, preparing to fall

To put your house in order, you try to return everything to good condition. You don’t usually mean a house. You may want to:

  • Get your finances in good shape.
  • Improve your behavior.
  • Prepare for death.

We see the last meaning in Isaiah 38:1 when Isaiah told King Hezekiah, “This is what the Lord says: Put your house in order, because you are going to die.”

Sometimes when people criticize you, you might say, “Put your own house in order.” This tells them to solve their problems instead of criticizing you.

All of us have problems. We can prevent many of them. With houses, we can:

  • Keep weeds, trees, and vines cut.
  • Repair cracks as soon as they appear.
  • Keep the foundation and support strong.

With our lives, we can:

  • Avoid harmful activities.
  • Correct mistakes as soon as they occur.
  • Make God our foundation.
  • Help one another stay strong.

“The rain came down, the streams rose, and the winds blew and beat against that house; yet it did not fall, because it had its foundation on the rock” (Matthew 7:25 NIV).

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Put Feet to Our Prayers

Put Feet to Our Prayers

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Put Feet to Our Prayers
Sculpture on Campbellsville University campus

Many of us believe in the power of prayer.

  • We pray for one another.
  • We pray for our own concerns.
  • We share prayer requests.
  • We report answers to prayer.
  • We keep prayer lists.
  • We pray at meals.
  • We pray before we go to bed.
  • We pray at church.

We can pray anytime and anyplace. We can also pray from any position:

  • Hands together
  • Hands apart
  • Standing
  • Sitting
  • Lying down
  • Kneeling

However, we sometimes need to get off our knees (or whatever our position). We need to put feet to our prayers. When we put feet to our prayers, we exercise more than our feet.

  • Our ears listen for God’s direction.
  • Our eyes see problems around us.
  • Our minds decide what to do.
  • Our feet go where needs exist.
  • Our hands reach out to help.

We often think or say, “Somebody ought to do something.” Well, take a good look in the mirror. We are somebody.  So let’s get out there and do something. Let’s put feet to our prayers.

“If anyone has material possessions and sees a brother or sister in need but has no pity on them, how can the love of God be in that person?” (1 John 3:17 NIV).

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An Ounce of Prevention is Worth a Pound of Cure

An Ounce of Prevention is Worth a Pound of Cure

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An Ounce of Prevention-morgueFileAll my life I heard that an apple a day keeps the doctor away. That sounds good to me. I’m for whatever we can do to prevent problems. Plus, I love apples.

We credit Benjamin Franklin with saying an ounce of prevention is worth a pound of cure. His quote contains wisdom we all need.

We can either spend a little time preventing a problem or a lot of time curing it.

If we have the ability to prevent something bad, why not do it? If eating apples will keep us out of the doctor’s office, let’s eat apples!

Some people have revised Franklin’s quote to say an ounce of prevention is better than a pound of cure. I tend to agree.

Consider our choices:

  • Exercise and eat well now or treat health problems later.
  • Save for emergencies now or deal with debt later.
  • Develop strong relationships now or have few friends later.
  • Work well now or find a new job later.

Do you see a pattern here?

Our choices today affect our lives tomorrow.

What kind of future do we want?

“Do not be wise in your own eyes; fear the LORD and shun evil. This will bring health to your body and nourishment to your bones” (Proverbs 3:8 NIV).

Thank you to Karen Atwood for this suggestion.

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Garden Spot of the World

Garden Spot of the World

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Garden Spot of the WorldI live in the garden spot of the world. In my opinion, Central Kentucky is the greatest place on earth.

Of course, many other people claim they live in the garden spot of the world. Our world offers much beauty, and I love to explore it. Nevertheless, nothing compares to my Kentucky home.

Consider all her advantages:

  • The beauty of four seasons
  • Friendly people
  • A great combination of countryside and towns
  • Hills, valleys, lakes, meadows — so many choices for homes or vacations
  • A variety of animals, both tame and wild

From the window near my desk, I watch the seasons change.

  • Flowers and trees turn green and bloom.
  • Sunshine, rain, rainbows, clouds, sleet, and snow come and go.
  • Rabbits, squirrels, turkeys, deer, butterflies, and birds pass by.

Many people who explore our area choose to remain here. Others return for frequent visits.

Our family loves to invite visitors from other countries to our home. We enjoy sharing with them our little spot in the garden spot of the world.

“But God made the earth by his power; he founded the world by his wisdom and stretched out the heavens by his understanding” (Jeremiah 10:12 NIV).

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Jump from the Frying Pan into the Fire

Jump from the Frying Pan into the Fire

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Jump from the Frying Pan into the Fire 2If we touch a hot frying pan, we let go fast.  We want to avoid the pain and scars. Holding on does not make good sense.

We suffer far worse if we touch the source of that heat. We definitely want to stay out of the fire. Therefore, we don’t touch:

• Hot stoves
• Bonfires
• Fireplaces
• Torches

Yet, how often do we try to solve one mistake by making another? In the process, we make our bad situation worse. We jump from the frying pan into the fire.

• We cover one lie with another.
• We hurt people and then avoid them.
• We do poor work but blame someone else.

We can do better:

• Admit our mistakes.
• Apologize and repair relationships.
• Do our best, and help others do their best.

Let go of the frying pan. Stay out of the fire.

“Fools mock at making amends for sin, but goodwill is found among the upright” (Proverbs 14:9 NIV).

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