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Cold Feet

Cold Feet

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Cold Feet: Six uncovered feet at the foot of a bedMany of us live with cold feet. We don’t need winter, snow, or freezing rain. Our feet stay cold any time of year in any kind of weather.

However, cold feet means more than the temperature of our toes.

Cold feet freeze our plans or desires.

Cold feet refers to fear of doing something.

We lose our nerve. We get:

  • Discouraged
  • Shy
  • Anxious

Enthusiasm disappears. Cowardice replaces confidence. We wring our hands, afraid to do what we want to do.

A little fear can be a good thing.

It helps us:

  • Focus
  • Try harder
  • Avoid mistakes

Yet, cold feet paralyze us. They stop us in our tracks.

Faith overcomes fear.

Like socks or blankets warm our feet, faith covers us with courage.

We find support for our faith in:

  • The Bible and prayer for God’s strength (a perfect plan for every day)
  • Practice of what scares us (get our feet wet)
  • Encouragement from others (give it as well as receive it)

We choose. Will we freeze in fear or step forward in faith wherever God leads?

“The Lord himself goes before you and will be with you; he will never leave you nor forsake you. Do not be afraid; do not be discouraged” (Deuteronomy 31:8 NIV).

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Up One Side and Down the Other

Up One Side and Down the Other

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Up One Side and Down the Other--Theodore Roosevelt National ParkMany of us enjoy exploring our world up one side and down the other. We want to go everywhere and see everything. We stay ready to hit the trail, whether we go off the beaten path or somewhere well known.

Up one side and down the other means we do something thoroughly.

We go to extremes, such as when we:

  • Travel to as many places as possible.
  • Fuss without mercy when someone upsets us.
  • Look everywhere for items we lose.

We want to be thorough, but we don’t want to waste time.

A few activities are worth extra effort. Others keep us from more important matters.

  • Enjoy travel, but don’t neglect home.
  • Confront problems but deal with them and move on.
  • Keep items where they need to go, so searching up one side and down the other remains unnecessary.

“Praise the Lord, all his works everywhere in his dominion” (Psalm 103:22 NIV).

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Gild the Lily

Gild the Lily

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Gild the Lily--white lily bloomMy friend Pam recently made chocolate chip pancakes. In addition to chocolate chips inside the pancakes, she sprinkled extra on top. Her husband asked why. Pam said, “I guess I’m just gilding the lily.” She was trying to make a good pancake better.

To gild the lily is to try to improve something that is already great.

A lily is a beautiful flower. It needs nothing more.

Likewise, much in life holds great beauty. Yet, people frequently gild the lily by:

  • Covering a beautiful face with too much makeup
  • Adding too much jewelry to a lovely outfit
  • Using fancy words when simple ones work well
  • Living high on the hog rather than down to earth

Too much of anything can make a good thing bad.

Many additions are unnecessary. Some cause damage.

  • A compliment sounds pleasing. Flattery does not.
  • Apologies and forgiveness restore a relationship. Unnecessary apologies may weaken it.

Improve what needs to be improved, but leave excellence alone.

“Consider the lilies how they grow: they toil not, they spin not; and yet I say unto you, that Solomon in all his glory was not arrayed like one of these” (Luke 12:27 NIV).

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Elbow Grease

Elbow Grease

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Cleaning takes a lot of elbow grease. A good job requires hard labor that makes us sweat.

Elbow Grease--cleaning toolsWhen we use elbow grease, we work hard.

With house cleaning, we must:

  • Scrub every part of the house
  • Move furniture and other heavy objects
  • Get rid of loose and ground-in dirt

I decided a long time ago that housework is hazardous to our health. Yet, it must be done.

Other jobs that require elbow grease include:

Elbow grease often involves work with our arms.

Constant motion with our elbows, can result in injury. Several years ago, I sealed our deck with a brush. That job resulted in tendonitis that still gives me occasional problems. (It also gives me a good excuse to put off work like washing windows.)

Hard mental work also leaves us exhausted.

Mental work may not require elbow grease. Yet, it often tires us more than physical labor. After a full day of using our brains, a few minutes of physical activity feels good.

Whatever work we do, let’s give it our best. However, let’s not overdo.

God gave us one day a week to rest from our work and to worship.

What a wonderful way to prepare for the week ahead.

“The seventh day is a sabbath to the Lord your God. On it you shall not do any work” (Exodus 20:10 NIV).

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Two Peas in a Pod

Two Peas in a Pod

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Two Peas in a Pod--two men playing banjo and fiddleMy dad and Uncle Millard differed in many ways. However, they were like two peas in a pod in their love for music.

Dad and Uncle Millard did not want to play music professionally. Instead, they played for the joy of playing. They often gathered with other musicians in our kitchen on Friday or Saturday nights for a time of “picking and grinning.”

Two peas in a pod means two items or people are as much alike as two peas in the same pod.

Two Peas in a Pod--peas in and out of a pod with flowersIn addition to shared interests, like Dad and Uncle Millard, two peas in a pod may:

  • Look alike (identical twins, who are the spitting image of one another)
  • Have similar beliefs (people who attend the same church)
  • Act the same (shy people)
  • Share all the above

The similarities of two peas in a pod may change with time.

Several people grow more alike. Others become quite different.

People have no choice with some similarities.

They cannot choose:

  • Birth family
  • Health at birth
  • Many life circumstances

However, they can choose:

  • Friends
  • Education
  • Activities
  • Health care

Those who make poor choices must face the music. Others wisely follow in the footsteps of those who lead them well.

“The righteous choose their friends carefully, but the way of the wicked leads them astray” (Proverbs 12:26 NIV).

Thanks to Joyce Cordell for the suggestion. Second photo courtesy of Pixabay.

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Keep On Keeping On

Keep On Keeping On

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Keep On Keeping On--storm at seaMany times we feel like we are drowning in a sea of responsibility. The storms of life hit. We have too much to do with too little time or energy to do it. Yet, we keep on keeping on.

Storms at sea can arise quickly and cause much trouble.

  • Clouds roll in.
  • Thunder and lightning threaten danger ahead.
  • Rain pounds, and waves toss our boats.

Yet, we have no escape, so we batten down the hatches and keep going.

If we keep on keeping on, we refuse to give up.

Instead, we keep doing what we are doing — what we have to do.

Like storms at sea, life storms can arise quickly and cause much trouble. They may also be slow-moving day-to-day responsibilities with no relief in sight. Either way, we hang on for dear life and do the best we can.

Most storms soon pass.

The sun comes out, and a rainbow appears.

All is well. Our troubles of the moment disappear.

Keep On Keeping On--whales in a choppy seaOther storms remain with us.

Our troubles continue, yet we make the best of a bad situation.

We look for moments of pleasure, like the sudden appearance of whales in a storm-tossed sea.

  • Friends call or visit to offer encouragement.
  • A funny moment occurs in the midst of many not-so-funny moments.
  • We enjoy a brief walk, beautiful music, or favorite foods.

Whether storms come and go or come and stay, we do not have to face them alone.

Other people will help if they know our needs. Jesus promised the presence of His Spirit to all who trust in Him.

When hard times come, keep on keeping on, my friend. May you know God’s never-failing peace.

“I will pray the Father, and he shall give you another Comforter, that he may abide with you for ever” (John 14:16 KJV).

Thanks to a 5-3-20 commenter on Upper Room for the suggestion. First photo by enriquelopezgarre from Pixabay.

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Keep Your Eyes Peeled

Keep Your Eyes Peeled

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Keep Your Eyes Peeled--Old North Church steepleOn April 18, 1775, many people in Boston kept their eyes peeled on the steeple of the Old North Church. There, two signal lanterns warned of British troops approaching by sea. This American history event became well known in Henry Wadsworth Longfellow’s poem, Paul Revere’s Ride.

The literal meaning of keep your eyes peeled sounds painful. However, the idiom suggests we watch closely to prevent pain or problems.

Similar expressions include:

  • Keep your eyes skinned.
  • Keep your eyes open.

If you keep your eyes peeled, you try not to blink too often or too long.

You want to stay alert to everything around you. Your eyelids are the eye’s skin or peel. When you blink, you chance missing what you want to see.

With your eyes peeled, you watch carefully for someone or something.

You might watch for:

  • A check in the mail
  • Bargains at a favorite store
  • An acceptance letter from your favorite school

You do not want to miss it.

You might also watch for the beauty around you:

  • Birds and animals
  • Mountains, lakes, or fields
  • Clouds, sunrises, and sunsets

Your focus – where you keep your eyes peeled – guides your life’s direction.

Stay wise as an owl. Choose your focus carefully.

Few things last forever. Not:

  • Money
  • Possessions
  • Status

Find eternal value in a relationship with the one who created you, eyes and all.

“I keep my eyes always on the Lord. With him at my right hand, I will not be shaken” (Psalm 16:8 NIV).

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Rat Race

Rat Race

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As much as I hate rats, I feel sorry for them. The poor things never escape their rat race for survival. Not only do they compete against one another for food, people try to kill them.

A rat race means constant competition.

People compete for:

  • Money
  • Power
  • Success
  • Social status

They struggle against one another for the best position. Although they may not kill one another, they do often damage the work or reputation of competitors.

In addition, constant stress destroys people’s health. Intense pressure leaves little time to relax. Instead, they end up running on fumes.

Many people decide to escape their rat race.

Rat Race--city traffic jamThey choose a slower, more relaxed lifestyle.

When I think of a rat race, I usually imagine big cities. I love to visit New York City, San Francisco, and Chicago. However, I never want to live there. I hate traffic jams and daily crowds.

Instead, give me country life with wide open spaces. My little garden spot of the world suits me fine. I prefer the middle of nowhere to crowded city streets.

Of course, people in the country live with stress too. A too-busy schedule happens everywhere.

All people need moments to relax.

A slower pace gives time to

  • Enjoy the moment
  • Experience all of life
  • Recognize the importance of relationships
  • Give of oneself for a greater good

Work hard, but live well.

“Always strive to do what is good for each other and for everyone else” (1 Thessalonians 5:15 NIV).

Thanks to Shelia Price for the suggestion. Photo by Rebekah Blocker on Unsplash.

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Too Many Irons in the Fire

Too Many Irons in the Fire

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Too Many Irons in the Fire--Anthony SalyersAnthony Salyers demonstrates the work of an old-time blacksmith shop during Greg Lawhorn’s Molasses Day a few years ago. Anthony knows not to put too many irons in the fire. If he does, he will probably ruin part of his work.

Many of us have not learned that lesson. We fail to limit ourselves. Instead, we stay busy as bees with too many activities at one time.

Too many irons in the fire means we try to do more than we can handle.

A blacksmith must limit the number of irons in the fire when making horseshoes or other items. We must also limit what we do, if we want to do anything well.

Although we know better, we still try to do too much.

We overload ourselves with:

  • Work commitments
  • Family responsibilities
  • Community events

Often vacations get overloaded as well. We cram as much as we can into the short time we have. As a result, we return to work exhausted.

With too many irons in the fire, something will eventually fail.

  • Our work becomes less than the best.
  • We get sick.
  • Our families struggle.
  • No one’s needs get met.

Rather than overdo, why not do what we can do well?

Focus on the most important. If we have time and energy, we can add more. If we see we cannot do it all, let someone help.

“You’re going to wear yourself out—and if you do, what will happen to the people?” (Exodus 18:18 TLB).

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Piping Hot

Piping Hot

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I love the piping hot sound of chicken fajitas fresh off the grill. Like high-pitched musical pipes, steam sizzles and rises from the skillet, music to my ears. I want to eat immediately, if not sooner.

Piping Hot--fajitas on a grillAnything piping hot is very hot.

Other piping hot favorites include:

  • Taco soup
  • Chicken casserole
  • Roast beef with potatoes, onions, and carrots
  • Grilled fish

Yum! As a friend used to say, “Those are good groceries.” They stick to the ribs.

I put any leftover food in the refrigerator, so it will not spoil. Too long at room temperature could cause food poisoning.

Spiritual appetites also need to remain piping hot.

Pass It On, a favorite song from my youth, declares that one small spark gets a fire going. It encourages singers and listeners to share God’s love with the people around them.

Each day, I choose whether to spread the fire of God’s love. So do you, dear friend. Warm is not good enough. God offers and expects the best. May that message spread like wildfire.

 “I know your deeds, that you are neither cold nor hot. I wish you were either one or the other!  So, because you are lukewarm—neither hot nor cold—I am about to spit you out of my mouth” (Revelation 3:15-16 NIV).

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Thanks to Kristy Robinson Horine for the suggestion. Photo courtesy of Pixabay.

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