Through the Wringer
After I told a friend of recent family health problems, she said, “Oh, my goodness, Diana. You have sure been through the wringer.” Life has certainly felt that way.
This summer:
- My husband spent three weeks in two hospitals.
- I had an emergency appendectomy three days after he came home.
- My husband had out-patient surgery a month later.
We have spent most of the past three months with health care providers.
However, people we know (and don’t know) have suffered much worse. They have been through the wringer in ways we cannot imagine.
Through the wringer (or through the ringer) means a difficult or unpleasant experience.
Years ago, my mother used a wringer washer. Water did not spin out of the washer. It was squeezed out. We did not want delicate clothes to go through the wringer. It could ruin them. Neither did we want our fingers in the wringer. That damage could be far more difficult.
Difficult experiences may result from bad treatment from others.
People may:
- Gossip about us
- Scold us
- Punish us
Difficult experiences may also result from life circumstances.
Our situation this summer fits that description.
We all suffer hard times. That’s life. Yet, we know these experiences will not last forever. Rather than wring our hands in worry, we recall past good times or look forward to better days. We expect everything to come out in the wash.
We can also look to the God of all creation who promises believers:
- Peace in the midst of storms
- Eternal life in heaven with no more pain or problems
With God’s love and care, we keep on keeping on.
“When I am in distress, I call to you, because you answer me” (Psalm 86:7 NIV).
Thanks to Tracy Crump for the suggestion. Photo courtesy of dagrimshaw from Pixabay.
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