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Heebie-Jeebies

February 17, 2020 Diana Derringer Comments 4 comments

Heebie-jeebies--two small frogs Frogs give me the heebie-jeebies. Big ugly frogs. Cute little frogs. All frogs. They jump too fast. Plus, a friend once had a frog get tangled in her hair.

I am working on my frog fear. Since these little ones were behind glass, I was brave.

Having the heebie-jeebies is no fun. They make us feel:

Fear
Anxiety
Uncertainty
Dread
Worry

We differ on what gives us the heebie-jeebies.

Frequent fears include:

Death, so we use words like kick the bucket.
Frogs or other animals, so we try to stay away from them.
Public speaking, so we let other people speak for us.
The dark, so we keep lights on all night.

A few of us fear or worry about everything.

We are afraid of our own shadow and stay tied in knots.

A certain amount of fear can be helpful.

Fear may cause us to:

Take care of our health
Stay away from dangerous animals
Avoid dangerous people
Watch our step in dangerous situations

Faith leads us away from fear and worry.

Faith does not remove all our problems. However, if we trust Jesus, He will be with us through life’s troubles. Faith in Jesus also leads us to a home in heaven.

So do not fear, for I am with you; do not be dismayed, for I am your God. I will strengthen you and help you; I will uphold you with my righteous right hand” (Isaiah 41:10).

Thanks to Margaret Bertram for the suggestion.

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Saved by the Bell

February 10, 2020 Diana Derringer Comments 3 comments

Saved by the bell means we escape a difficult situation at the last moment.

A bell rings to end each round in a boxing match. If a boxer is knocked down, he may be counted out. However, if the bell rings first, he can continue the match.

Few of us have been boxers. However, many of us have been saved by the bell.

We escape trouble by the skin of our teeth.

Saved by the bell sometimes applies to embarrassing situations.

We fail to write a paper for class. The class ends before the teacher asks for it.
We have food on our face. A friend tells us before we meet our new boss.
We almost fall in front of a crowd. Someone catches us before we hit the floor.

Saved by the bell also applies to serious situations.

We get trapped in a burning car. A policeman pulls us from the car before it explodes.
We cannot pay a past-due bill. Unexpected money comes in the mail.
We will soon be homeless. Friends ask us to stay with them.

Years ago, a few people put bells on coffins. They thought anyone accidentally buried alive could ring the bell. However, according to The Phrase Finder, saved by the bell relates to boxing, not coffins.

Our greatest salvation comes through Jesus’ death on a cross.

Jesus died for our wrongs. After three days, He rose from the grave. If we accept Jesus’ gift of salvation, we receive eternal life and a home in heaven. We don’t have to wait to be saved by the bell at the last moment. Jesus offers salvation now.

“He died for our sins and rose again to make us right with God” (Romans 4:25 TLB).

Thanks to Carol York Patterson Brangers for the suggestion.

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Kit and Caboodle

February 3, 2020 Diana Derringer Comments 5 comments

Kit and Caboodle--Yellowstone park with bison If I want all of something, I want the whole kit and caboodle. For example, I would love to visit all the national parks. So far, Yellowstone remains my favorite.

The whole kit and caboodle means an entire collection.

All the parts
Everything

According to The Phrase Finder:

A kit is a “set of objects, as in a toolkit, or what a soldier would put in his kit-bag.” (A kit-bag is a knapsack.)
A caboodle (or boodle) “is an archaic term meaning group or collection, usually of people.”

We rarely hear kit or caboodle used alone. However, we still hear them used together, either as:

Kit and caboodle, or
The whole kit and caboodle

The whole kit and caboodle can be a good or fun description.

For example:

Family reunions with all the relatives
A collection of books from a favorite author
Choir rehearsal when everyone shows up

The whole kit and caboodle can also describe something not good or fun.

For example:

All the side effects of cancer treatments
The loss of everything in a fire
A car accident that kills an entire family

I appreciate all you readers, the whole kit and caboodle.

You warm the cockles of my heart. Thank you for your:

Comments and messages (You can comment below.)
Suggestions for blog posts
Shares on social media

Above all, thank you for your prayers for God’s guidance.

“I thank my God through Jesus Christ for all of you” (Romans 1:8).

Thanks to Carole Fite and Brad Leverett for the suggestion.

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Come Out in the Wash

January 27, 2020 Diana Derringer Comments 4 comments

Come Out in the Wash-blouse hanging on a porch with tree in the background “Don’t worry about it. It will come out in the wash.” Those words have probably helped many of us deal with problems or disappointments.

To come out in the wash tells us everything will be okay.

We hate to get stains on our clothing. However, most stains wash out. In the same way, we hate to have problems in life. Yet, most problems work out.

We try to cover up when we do wrong. That also comes out in the wash. We cannot hide bad behavior forever.

With time:

Wrongs will be made right.
Truth will expose lies.
Hard times will pass.
Good will win over evil.

Some troubles come out in the wash faster than others.

Not all stains come out quickly. We have to wash our clothes several times to get rid of them. Likewise, not all troubles disappear as soon as we like.

We often worry when all we need to do is wait.

When we wring our hands in worry, we make ourselves feel worse. Most problems cause little harm. If harm comes, it usually does not last long. However, if we do suffer a long time, we can look for lessons from our experiences.

Life gets dirty, but God offers to wash us clean.

If we accept Jesus as personal Savior, life’s troubles will one day end. The best is yet to come. Jesus paid the price for our wrongs and invites us to come clean. He will give us a fresh start.

“Wash me, and I will be whiter than snow” (Psalm 51:7 NIV).

Thanks to Linda Dean-Peavey for the suggestion and to Jeri Stone for the photo.

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Another Think Coming

January 20, 2020 Diana Derringer Comments 0 Comment

Another Think Coming--little girl lectures stuffed sheep “If that is what you think, you have another think coming!” Sadie’s poor sheep are in trouble.

Many of us have heard similar warnings as children and as adults. We were told, in no uncertain terms, our thinking was wrong. Such poor thinking often put us in hot water.

If we have another think coming, our thoughts are mistaken.

We may honestly believe wrong information. However, we may also try to twist the truth to get what we want.

Wrong thinking includes:

Believing most people enjoy an easier life than ours. Yet, everyone has problems.
Trying to lie or cheat in order to succeed. Yet, we hurt ourselves and others in the process.
Thinking we are better or worse than other people. Yet, every person is created in God’s image and worthy of respect.

We all make mistakes. Yet, God forgives and offers a fresh start when we repent of our wrong choices.

When we change our thoughts, we also change how we feel and act.

Negative thoughts make us feel bad. When we feel bad, our actions often turn bad. Therefore, remember:

God created us for a special purpose.
We choose whether to accept that purpose — to think and act according to God’s plan.
What we think, plus how we feel and act, makes a difference in our lives and in our world.

“A person may think their own ways are right, but the Lord weighs the heart” (Proverbs 21:2 NIV).

Thanks to Kristy Robinson Horine for the suggestion and the photo.

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Sour Grapes

January 13, 2020 Diana Derringer Comments 0 Comment

Sour grapes--grapes on a vine Most of us have probably had sour grapes moments. We want something but cannot get it.

Sour grapes mean we fail to reach what we want, so we pretend it is not important.

We give a sour grapes explanation when we:

Criticize or make fun of what we cannot have
Say we never really wanted it or would not have enjoyed it
Criticize or make fun of the person who gets what we wanted
Say we don’t care

Although we try to hide it, we are:

Disappointed we did not get what we wanted
Jealous of the person who received it.

**We find the sour grapes fable in Aesop’s The Fox and the Grapes.**

A hungry fox finds good looking grapes hanging above him. When he never succeeds in reaching them, the fox says the grapes are sour.

With an attitude like the fox, we decide if we cannot have something, it was never worth our time or effort – we would not have liked it.

The Bible also mentions sour grapes but with a different meaning.

The Bible’s sour grapes (in Ezekiel 18:2 and Jeremiah 31:29-30) refer to people suffering the consequences for their actions. Expressions that fit those verses include:

“In those days they shall no longer say: ‘The fathers have eaten sour grapes, and the children’s teeth are set on edge.’ But everyone shall die for his own iniquity. Each man who eats sour grapes, his teeth shall be set on edge” (Jeremiah 31:29-30 ESV).

Thanks to Carole Fite for the suggestion. Image by skeeze from Pixabay.

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A Good Day’s Work for a Good Day’s Pay

January 6, 2020 Diana Derringer Comments 3 comments

A Good Day's Work for a Good Day's Pay--youth replacing a ceiling Not everyone believes in a good day’s work for a good day’s pay. Honest, hard-working people do. Others work as little as possible for their pay.

Good employees give a good day’s work for a good day’s pay.

Those employees:

Work the number of hours expected
Take breaks only during break time
Work well with others
Show respect to everyone
Never cheat the boss

They put their hands to the plow and get the job done. A few employees work more than required for good measure.

On the other side of the coin, good bosses give a good day’s pay for a good day’s work.

Those employers:

Pay a fair wage
Do not overwork employees
Allow time for regular breaks and emergency leave
Provide worker training
Never act high and mighty
Respect and never cheat employees

A few employers pay more than expected for good measure.

Money is not always the greatest reward for hard work.

These youth team members from Campbellsville Baptist Church worked hard on their mission trip. They received no money. However, they did experience the joy of helping others. No amount of money can buy that feeling.

As 2020 begins:

Work hard and well if you work for someone.
Pay well and fairly if someone works for you.
Help someone in need.

“The work of their hands brings them reward” (Proverbs 12:14 NIV).

Thanks to Bonnie Alley for the suggestion and to Jenny Burgess for the photo.

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Pay the Fiddler

December 30, 2019 Diana Derringer Comments 0 Comment

Pay the Fiddler--fiddle in case with a money container A friend’s father often said, “The one who dances has to pay the fiddler.” That makes sense. We live with the consequences of the choices we make.

To pay the fiddler means we suffer the results of what we say or do.

To pay the piper means the same. We use these expressions most often to describe the results of bad behavior. If we get in trouble, we get punished. Our choices force us to face the music.

The same truth applies to gardening: We reap what we sow.

Follow the wrong crowd — get in trouble.
Cheat on tests — fail to learn.
Hurt other people — lose their trust.

When we choose the right words and actions, we enjoy better results.

Follow the right examples — learn the best way to live.
Work as we should — grow in knowledge and abilities.
Treat others well — build trust in relationships.

Choose well to live well.

As another year begins, may we always choose the best. Happy New Year!

“Be sure your sin will find you out” (Numbers 32:23 KJV).

Thanks to Patty Cooper Emerson for the suggestion.

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In a Jam

December 23, 2019 Diana Derringer Comments 5 comments

Eating jam is fun. Getting in a jam is not.

Amy, a former Campbellsville University student, learned how to make jam during one of her visits to our home. We enjoyed an afternoon of fun.

Eating jam cake made by my husband’s mother and other relatives became a family tradition. We had fun as we talked and ate.

One of my favorite Christmas gifts from my mother was homemade raspberry jam and jelly. What fun my sister and I had when we opened that special gift.

If we get in a jam, we get in a difficult situation.

We have a problem and cannot find an answer. As a result, we feel like we are beating our heads against a wall.

Some jams are not our fault. However, we often end up in trouble because of our poor choices, such as:

Doing what we should not do
Going where we should not go
Wanting what we do not need

In a Jam--jam cake During Christmas or other holidays, we can easily get in a jam. We plan too much to do with too little time to do it. We forget to have fun.

Slow down. Cut back on activities. Focus on what really matters. Take time to remember the reason for this joyful season.

Merry Christmas! May all your jams be edible.

^“A prudent man foresees the difficulties ahead and prepares for them; the simpleton goes blindly on and suffers the consequences” (Proverbs 22:3 TLB).

Thanks to Shanon Camille O’Banion and Cakes by Camille for the jam cake photo.

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