Building Bridges
Since the beginning of time, people have built bridges to get from where they are to where they want to be.
Or, they built bridges so other people could get to them. Either way, they made connections.
We sometimes forget that the greatest bridges cannot be seen with our eyes.
Emotional or spiritual connections can last longer than the best built physical bridge. Those lasting connections, however, demand work. We must be willing to:
- Invest time and effort to stay in touch
- Quickly correct any misunderstandings or problems
- Accept one another’s imperfections
- Confront issues that can’t be overlooked
- Forgive each other’s failures
Building physical bridges can be messy.
Frequent difficulties include:
- Bad weather
- Delays in receiving building materials
- Tired and grouchy workers
- Unexpected expenses
Building emotional bridges can be far messier.
Relationship challenges include:
- Multiple responsibilities
- Limited information
- Fatigue and bad moods
- Illness
- Financial strains
- Personality differences
So, is the effort worth it?
Absolutely!
I continually give thanks to all who have loved me through good times and bad. I pray that I will always be there for them, as well.
In every relationship, we can learn from the greatest bridge builder of all.
He came from heaven to show us the way to join Him there.
“Jesus answered, ‘I am the way and the truth and the life. No one comes to the Father except through me'” (John 14:6).
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5 thoughts on “Building Bridges”
This isn’t exactly a discussion, but I want you to know that I appreciate your digging deeper into our language. I taught in China (12 years )and the most difficult part was explaining our colloquial language use and its idioms. Judith Coopy
Thank you, Judith. I began this after a few years of explaining some of our unusual expressions to numerous international students.