Upon My Word of Honor
When anything shocked my grandmother and her sister, they often declared, “Upon my word of honor!” Occasionally they shortened it to “Pon my word of honor!” or simply “My word!”
Sometimes their surprise came from love or admiration. Both enjoyed and grew flowers. An amazing new discovery led to clapped hands and words of approval.
Other times the same words expressed their disapproval. Unruly children might lead to, “Upon my word of honor! I can’t believe their parents let them get away with that.”
Upon my word of honor has two main meanings.
My grandmother and great-aunt demonstrated one.
1. It expresses shock or surprise.
People can’t believe what they see or hear. It amazes them.
2. Upon my word of honor is also an oath or vow.
People promise or pledge to do something. That may be a formal pledge like an oath of office. It may also be an informal promise between friends or acquaintances. They mean they will do what they say. They vow they are telling the truth.
Why not always live an honest life rather than make promises?
If people know someone is as good as their word, they will not question what that person says or does. They trust them.
“Say just a simple ‘Yes, I will’ or ‘No, I won’t.’ Your word is enough. To strengthen your promise with a vow shows that something is wrong. (Matthew 5:37 TLB).
Thanks to Jason Smith (and his Aunt Beulah who used this expression) for the suggestion.
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10 thoughts on “Upon My Word of Honor”
So appreciated this post ma’am. I’ve said many times that, “Beyond my salvation, the one thing of any value in my life is my word.” I work hard to present myself as a man of integrity and honor. I hold to my promises, even when it is costly for me to do so. More importantly, I think, is I hold myself to a code of conduct and values-based integrity that defines who I am. Something I wish more could do these days. God’s blessings.
Thank you, J.D. Your comments make me think of my dad. They fit him so well. Blessings on your life as you seek to serve our Savior through both words and actions.
I agree with JD. This world would be a better place if more people lived by honor and integrity.
It definitely would, Tracy. I pray the example of those who display honor and integrity will draw more to that way of life.
Honor and integrity in every word and action. Sharing His love in every moment. The world would be very different if we all lived for God and not for self.
So true, Melissa. Thank you for your efforts in making it so.
Honor and integrity were always an integral part of how our ancestors lived out their lives. If only we could return to that!
Blessings, Diana!
Such valuable traits that we often overlook, aren’t they, Martha? Blessings on your efforts to promote them.
Although familiar with the phrase, “Upon my word,” I’d never made the connection between that and “My word of honor.” Thank you for sharing and connecting. I remember some of the sayings and wisdom my grandmother shared. She woud have been right at home with your family. I enjoyed your message. Thank you.
Thank you, Katherine. I enjoy exploring all these expressions. I’m surprised at all I’ve learned. Our grandmothers would probably have had a ball together!